Hedonism & Hurt

There is so much of this in music today, and it is just a mircrocosom of what the world is going through, below there are some lyrics of Billboard top 100 songs, both in the top 10, and there are many more that could be added to this list, but for time and content, they've been left out.

Disclaimer: These are some hard lyrics, and while they have been censored, the fact that people would really sing these things is still tough to swallow. It is altogether sad and convicting. Take a look:

Lisa is stuck up in the world on her own

Forced to think that hell is a place called home

Nothin else to do but some get some clothes and pack

She says shes bout to run away and never come back

Little erica is eleven years old

Shes steady tryin to figure why the world is so cold
So she pops x to get rid of all the pain

Cause shes havin sex with a boy whos sixteen

Emotions run deep and she thinks shes in love

Never thinkin bout the consequences of her actions

Livin for today and not tomorrows satisfaction

The days go by and her belly gets big

The father bails out he aint ready for a kid

Knowin her mama will blow it all outta proportion

Plus she lives poor so no money for abortion

This is why I’m hot Catch me on the block Every other day

This is the other side of this post!!

Another ____ another drop 16 bars, 24 pop 44 songs, _____ gimme what you got

I’m in there driving cars Push them off the lot I’m into shutting stores down so I can shop

If you need a bird I can get it chopped Tell ne what you need you know I get ‘em by the flock

I call my hommie black meet me on the ave

I hit wash heights with the money in the bag we into big spinners

See my _______ never dragged Find me with different women that you ______never had

For those who say they know me know I’m focused on my cream

Playa you come between you’d better focus on the beam

I keep it so feen the way you see me lean

And when I say I’m hot my ______ this is what I mean

Look at this, what are they feeling? Like I said before, these lyrics are not isolated incidents, just scrolling through the top songs, most all of them could fall into either some talk of hurting or a glorifying of hedonism (def- Pursuit of or devotion to pleasure, especially to the pleasures of the senses). There are some exceptions to this, of course, but the point is still clear; there is an immense amount of pain in the lives of the world, and there is a lifestyle of solely pleasing the senses.

What are the implications of this?

Think of this, what is the utopia of the hurting songs? If we could map out the end result of what these people are looking for, what would it be? "Somewhere Over the Rainbow", When I Wish Upon a Star". No, they would want all the pain in their life to dissipate, I would generalize, ladies would most likely for a strong loving caring man, to come and save them from it. These two girls in the lyrics (three in the actual song) would want all this junk to be gone, and would either want a father figure to come and make it right or someone that they would fall in love with to come and make it right. (yes I know there are exceptions.....there always are). Now think about the converse of this, that person comes and they protect and care for them, they take away the hurt, but to what end? What happens then, happily ever after? Wait 'till the sequel. No, we who are in relationships know that our fathers royally screw up in our lives, we who are in relationships know that us men (husbands, boyfriends, fiance, or friend) mess up terribly. We have said things to the one we care for that brings us great pain to relive, we miss the event, or forget the promise, and these are not isolated incidents. So, what happens to the saving, the fixing, what happens now?

Take the hedonism, what is their utopia, all the sexual pleasure one could fathom, food, touch, smell, possession, power that could possible be experienced or consumed? We see this played out regularly in the lives of the wealthy and immature. Cars, houses, clubs, women, (or men for that matter) consume, consume, consume. Different partner as often as wanted, endless resources, the list can go on. So what is the other side of this dystopia?

Often there is a string of broken laws, hearts, and promises in the wake, all in the name of pleasure. Litigation, child support, death, deceit, mistrust, loss of power, respect, and prestige. We can see this in the amount of large sums of money won in different events, or young persons given large sums of money with power and notoriety at a young age, and the lives of the person in 5-10 years (or 1 month-2 years) are no longer envied.

The point is clear, we have to know what is happening here. We can eaves drop on many different conversation out in the public sphere and see this. The selfishness, narcissism in the conversation. How many times I, me, my, mine, how often the stories always directly relates to them. People are living for things that will last for about a minute. Music is such a huge part of our experiences in life. These songs, along with many others, are a fire alarm to a missional Christian. The hope of Jesus Christ destroys all the pain, it overturns the life of pleasure and it sills it will a love that will not wane, and a pleasure that cannot be compared. There is unspeakable hurt, the empty tomb shows eternal healing, there is a hedonistic lifestyle, there is Christian Hedonism. Are we hurt for the hurts, do we see the life of the hedonist, and does it bring us pain? Christian does it, listen to the lyrics of the cultural influences and tell me what they are thinking....